Routines & Attraction? Oh My!

My biggest problem with “routines” is that they are lies. And very often they are absurd lies like Brad P.’s “The Horse Girl Opener”- YOU: “Hey do you like horses?” GIRL: ”HUH? ummm yea i guess.” YOU: “Hmm, I thought so. OK check this out, when I was in the 6th grade, there was this girl who loved horses. She used to run around the playground for an hour straight at lunchtime. She’d be galloping and making horse noises. We used to call her the weird horse girl.” GIRL: “Yeah, so?” YOU: “well…you look JUST LIKE...

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Date Planning for Guys Who Want RESULTS with Women

This is a guest post by Chase Amante, founder of pickup and date training company Girls Chase. One of the biggest obstacles most men run into that stops them dead in their tracks (just about) from achieving the kind of results they want with women (read: more phone numbers, more dates, more and better lovers, and more and better girlfriends) is a total lack of any kind of practical planning going into their outings to meet women, and a total lack of date planning going into their meet ups with women who already like them and want to see them. And it’s understandable; I know, I’ve...

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Why Women Cheat

Women will cheat because they’re not being given what they think they’re owed (and feel entitled to). The motivation to cheat is really about her and her wants. She wants to feel sexy and attractive; and she wants a sexy and attractive man to make her feel that way. She also wants her physical and emotional needs met; and to not still feel bored after. This post isn’t intended to scare men into believing all women are cheaters. It is intended to make men aware of how their actions may or may not be affecting the women they’re romantically involved with. Why women cheat will...

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Awesome Approaching

Every girl is different. Every situation is different. However, the way you go about approaching a girl for the first time will typically be one of three specific ways. It’s important to know which approach to use based on the atmosphere (i.e. nightclub, bar, coffee shop), as well as finding out which technique is best suited for your personality. Let’s take a look at these approach methods I speak of. When using a direct approach you make it clear to the girl that you’re talking to her because you found her attractive. Perhaps you walk straight up to her, stick out your hand and say,...

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Dating as an Asian-American

Guest Post by Ben J., ABCs of Attraction Coach and Trainer. The tall lean blonde stands in the corner of the noisy bar, sipping her cosmopolitan anxiously waiting for the tall and handsome white man, rugged with his stubble and fit as can be to approach her. While the woman waits in silence, I walk up to the lean blonde and tell her how gorgeous she is, and that I had to come over and ask for her name. She reciprocates the scintillating conversation to me. We speak of high class, interesting activities from our personal hobbies, career, and past adventures traveling to unknown and mysterious...

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