Never Chase Women: Creepy, Unrequited Love & Why I Hate Bruno Mars
Before I explain why I hate Bruno Mars, let me admit that Bruno Mars is an extremely talented singer; there are no doubts about this. However, as talented as he is, his music make me absolutely sick. Not as someone who has discriminating musical taste, but as a man. I’ve never felt so disgusted listening to a song before I heard “Grenade”. Then a few days later I was ever more disgusted to see a group of seemingly straight men drive around singing along to the lyrics. I understand Bruno Mars is a popular R&B singer with millions of fans worldwide, which includes men...
read moreThe SPAM Approacher
SPAM. You know it when you see it. And your immediate response might be scrolling to the upper right hand corner of the screen and clicking X, sending it straight to the trash, never to be seen again. This wasn’t a difficult decision for you, not something you had to seriously think about… SPAM is sent to hundreds, thousands, possibly even millions of people. You know this and you know it doesn’t offer you any real value. Sure, SPAM could offer some “value”. A fascinating headline might prompt someone to click…to spend time reading through…to hit the buy...
read moreDecisions Chisel Fate
September 27, 2008. It was supposed to be an ordinary day in my life. An ordinary day that consisted of waking up at 6AM to prepare for my 9 to 5 job, and then returning home to the comforts of television, internet pornography, Fantasy Football, frozen food dinners, and vigorous masturbation. My ordinary day would be complete when I slept in a bed that had never felt the warmth embrace of a woman. I used to believe being “good” with women was something a man was either born with or not. And I certainly was not born with it, considering that at the age of 24, I was still a virgin and had...
read moreVince Vaughn in Swingers Guide to Getting Girls
In the 1996 film, Swingers, Vince Vaughn plays a young, handsome, confident and charismatic playboy who can approach any woman and instantly charm her…all at the amazement of his friends spectating in awe. Vince’s character symbolizes what women want…and what men want to become. So what are the tenets of Vince’s character that makes him so awesome around women? Vince Vaughn in Swingers Guide to Getting Girls Being the Life of the Party When he walks into a room, he is at complete ease. The display of emotion is that he doesn’t take himself or the world too...
read moreDo looks matter? It’s up to YOU
The physical form of our body isn’t real. Technically it’s real, as our skin is made out of living cells. But when we look into our mirror and look upon the physique that stands before us, it’s only an illusion of what we perceive ourselves as. Somehow, our mind conjures up this distorted image of what we look like and how that makes us feel about ourselves. Sounds insane doesn’t it? Like if you’re fat in the mirror, then you’re fat and disgusting in real life. It is what it is, right? Not exactly… Take for example, an anorexic woman. She’s...
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