Mediocrity of Masturbation
If there’s one destructive habit that destroys the motivation for men to approach women, it’s masturbation.
Don’t approach women, don’t get laid. It’s plain and simple. This should be all the motivation necessary.
However, for some men, masturbation is an instant gratification whose indulgence kills the motivation to approach women.
That motivation to approach is driven by sexual desire based off the human need for affection and intimacy. When sexual desire isn’t satiated, it creates physiological tension, which inevitably requires release (ejaculation).
This either propels men to approach women or approach the computer.
It’s a decision made on sexual frustration, either choosing the fantasy of hope or the reality of intimacy. One is living in mediocrity and hopelessness, while the other leads to real measurable success with women.
A man transforms to a shell of his most attractive self when chooses masturbation. He saps away a vital energy and instead becomes a lethargic drone with nothing to look forward to except his stash of high-definition porn.
Psychology Today also details the harming effects masturbation has on men. In short, the PT article states that frequent masturbation results to,
-increased social anxiety
-impaired focus and concentration
-less rewarding relationships
-possibly even depression.
Of course it’s easier going to a porn site and preparing for five-knuckle shuffle times.
The gratification from masturbation is only temporary and the pleasure will always be a fantasy. This becomes a danger when masturbation becomes compulsive, almost like an addiction, and the stimulation needed to get off becomes increasingly weirder and perverted.
Combating compulsive masturbation will require disciple and changing habits. This starts with regulating emotions, and harnessing sexual desire towards accomplishing something that’s actually productive; examples include weightlifting, starting a new project, or simply going out to approach hot women
When a man has too much idle time with nothing productive in the works, he must keep busy or else the temptation of high-definition porn might be too much to handle.
He should refrain from masturbation at least three days before intending to go out and approach women. Or, have a once a week schedule, one and done; this can be the highlight of his week (hopefully it isn’t).
With regards to meeting women, masturbation is the equivalent of eating fast-food before going out to a five-star restaurant. Fast-food can be fine in small doses, but compared to gourmet food, it will always be mediocre. It’s a choice, but not the most healthy.
The mediocrity of masturbation is that in the end, you’re still only fucking yourself and not hot women.