Hesitation Killed The Warrior
Hesitation Killed The Warrior
The girl that immediately caught your eye…but didn’t approach.
The girl whose attention you got…but failed to lead.
The girl whose lips were waiting to be kissed…but you didn’t kiss.
The girl whose number you got…but didn’t ask her to come home with you.
The girl you brought home…but were too afraid to escalate on because it might scare her off.
Notice this has absolutely nothing to do with the girl…but everything to do with undermining your own reflexes as to man to take charge.
See Girl. Approach Girl. This is a reflex.
Between these two actions, any hesitations will jeopardize your success.
For example, hesitations consist of placing barriers between seeing the girl and approaching the girl.
Physical barriers might include a girl being with a large group of friends, with another guy, on the another side of a street or subway platform. In these instances, approach the girl when the circumstances are most favorable. The most favorable is when a girl is by herself, without distraction. This is why meeting women during the day is preferred; as opposed to a night-club when their is so much stimuli competing for their attention (music, lights, friends, orbiters, drunks, unknown drama, etc).
Mental barriers might include fear, self-doubt, sense of entitlement, etc. In these instances, a guy will believe he needs his ‘inner-game’ handled to feel good about himself. True, but he doesn’t need to download and listen to every self-help audiobook before he ever approaches. No. The fix to mental barriers is simply taking action. Action always win. Period.
The less barriers (physical and mental), the better the approach will be.
Now, imagine a warrior.
Naturally, a warrior displays the following characteristics-
He is confident because he lives without fear; he is aggressive because he takes risks; he is courageous because he understands the stakes of the situation.
Not surprisingly, it’s these same exact characteristics that make the men attractive to women.
Warriors don’t hesitate because doing so would contradict the title of a warrior.
When guys aren’t warriors, they’re pussies who complain about lost opportunities and become frustrated with a long list of “what if’s” and “would’a, could’a, should’a”.
Without hesitation though, all this becomes irrelevant. It’s the guy, the girl, and the guy aligning with his reflexes as a man to take charge.
What killed the warrior?
Hesitation killed the warrior.


Wow,the first greatest point in this post was about the guy blowing his chances ’cause of the things he’s saying to himself and thinking about.
Its so ironic that at those moments of doubt in the guy’s head,the girl would be thinking the total opposite:wishing and begging(to herself)that the guy escalates,kiss her,approach her,etc.
The contrast between why the girl thinks and guy thinks in such moments is as opposite as night & day.
Good post JT.. man I like how your blog is about core values instead of how you got girls and what you did.
Well……
However we must deal only with non feminist girls.