The Nightmare Before Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day, February 14th comes and goes every year, and every year there’s men and women arguing the significance of the so-called holiday. Of course, Valentine’s Day will mean different things for different people. For singles, it’s a harsh reminder that they’re still single e.g. Singles Awareness Day. And for couples (specifically men), it’s a reminder to make their significant other feel special. I’ve lived through twenty-seven Valentine’s Days, and there is one Valentine’s Day that serves as a reminder of just how harsh the holiday can feel. Let’s rewind to...
read moreRoutines & Attraction? Oh My!
My biggest problem with “routines” is that they are lies. And very often they are absurd lies like Brad P.’s “The Horse Girl Opener”- YOU: “Hey do you like horses?” GIRL: ”HUH? ummm yea i guess.” YOU: “Hmm, I thought so. OK check this out, when I was in the 6th grade, there was this girl who loved horses. She used to run around the playground for an hour straight at lunchtime. She’d be galloping and making horse noises. We used to call her the weird horse girl.” GIRL: “Yeah, so?” YOU: “well…you look JUST...
read morePlay the Game, Don’t Change the Rules
As we lie next to each other, sweaty, exhausted, and satisfied, she turns to me with the smile indicating of a job-well-done and says: “You know, I knew I wanted to sleep together within five minutes of meeting you.” Immediately my thoughts turned back to my initial approach, our playful banter, my smooth one-liners, heavy making-out, and the overall impeccable game I ran on her that night. My ego wanted me to think I was the only party involved. As if I whisked into the brightly lit venue, a tornado of style, cologne and smoothness, slid up to this tall, sexy brunette, and delivered the...
read moreWhy Women Cheat
Women will cheat because they’re not being given what they think they’re owed (and feel entitled to). The motivation to cheat is really about her and her wants. She wants to feel sexy and attractive; and she wants a sexy and attractive man to make her feel that way. She also wants her physical and emotional needs met; and to not still feel bored after. This post isn’t intended to scare men into believing all women are cheaters. It is intended to make men aware of how their actions may or may not be affecting the women they’re romantically involved with. Why women cheat will...
read moreAwesome Approaching
Every girl is different. Every situation is different. However, the way you go about approaching a girl for the first time will typically be one of three specific ways. It’s important to know which approach to use based on the atmosphere (i.e. nightclub, bar, coffee shop), as well as finding out which technique is best suited for your personality. Let’s take a look at these approach methods I speak of. When using a direct approach you make it clear to the girl that you’re talking to her because you found her attractive. Perhaps you walk straight up to her, stick out your hand and say,...
read moreDating as an Asian-American
Guest Post by Ben J., ABCs of Attraction Coach and Trainer. The tall lean blonde stands in the corner of the noisy bar, sipping her cosmopolitan anxiously waiting for the tall and handsome white man, rugged with his stubble and fit as can be to approach her. While the woman waits in silence, I walk up to the lean blonde and tell her how gorgeous she is, and that I had to come over and ask for her name. She reciprocates the scintillating conversation to me. We speak of high class, interesting activities from our personal hobbies, career, and past adventures traveling to unknown and...
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