Newbie Love in the Pickup/Dating Advice Community
Last night I attended a “Newbie Sarge”, an event held by The NYC Sarge Team where guys new to the pickup/dating advice community show-up alongside more seasoned veterans of the community to go out together and meet the women of New York City. The “Newbie Sarge” outings hosted by LovePirate have been going on for years and it’s produced some of the most respected and notorious talent in the community. It’s actually a beautiful thing and it’s how I got started exactly three years ago. What’s awesome is that the event is 100% free. It’s...
read moreChase Amante on Moving Fast with Girls: Why It Makes All the Difference
I was honored by my pal JT’s request to write up a quick blog post here and share with you an excerpt from my eBook How to Make Girls Chase: Every Tactic and Technique You Need to Get the Girl(s) of Your Dreams. JT’s a fantastic guy, and our styles in the social arts are pretty closely aligned — both of us keep things direct and to-the-point, and neither of us likes wasting time or effort on wishing or hoping for things to happen. The excerpt I selected for this post was on taking charge and making things happen with women quickly and decisively. Failing to do so is one of...
read moreThe Disappointing Tale of A “John”
I heard about a guy that was so frustrated with his sex life (rather lack of one) that he made the decision to hire a prostitute. I don’t judge what this person did. He needed to fulfill his sexual desires and get his dick wet, so he paid a hooker. I’m sure he entertained the thought of paid sex several times before, perhaps browsing through craigslist and escort pages. As he failed to get results with women (get laid) those thoughts must have lingered and intensified over time. He believed he did everything he possibly could to get laid and nothing seemed to work. Maybe he went...
read moreNever Chase Women: Creepy, Unrequited Love & Why I Hate Bruno Mars
Before I explain why I hate Bruno Mars, let me admit that Bruno Mars is an extremely talented singer; there are no doubts about this. However, as talented as he is, his music make me absolutely sick. Not as someone who has discriminating musical taste, but as a man. I’ve never felt so disgusted listening to a song before I heard “Grenade”. Then a few days later I was ever more disgusted to see a group of seemingly straight men drive around singing along to the lyrics. I understand Bruno Mars is a popular R&B singer with millions of fans worldwide, which includes men...
read moreThe SPAM Approacher
SPAM. You know it when you see it. And your immediate response might be scrolling to the upper right hand corner of the screen and clicking X, sending it straight to the trash, never to be seen again. This wasn’t a difficult decision for you, not something you had to seriously think about… SPAM is sent to hundreds, thousands, possibly even millions of people. You know this and you know it doesn’t offer you any real value. Sure, SPAM could offer some “value”. A fascinating headline might prompt someone to click…to spend time reading through…to hit the buy...
read moreDecisions Chisel Fate
September 27, 2008. It was supposed to be an ordinary day in my life. An ordinary day that consisted of waking up at 6AM to prepare for my 9 to 5 job, and then returning home to the comforts of television, internet pornography, Fantasy Football, frozen food dinners, and vigorous masturbation. My ordinary day would be complete when I slept in a bed that had never felt the warmth embrace of a woman. I used to believe being “good” with women was something a man was either born with or not. And I certainly was not born with it, considering that at the age of 24, I was still a virgin and had...
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