Mediocrity of Masturbation
If there’s one destructive habit that destroys the motivation for men to approach women, it’s masturbation. Don’t approach women, don’t get laid. It’s plain and simple. This should be all the motivation necessary. However, for some men, masturbation is an instant gratification whose indulgence kills the motivation to approach women. That motivation to approach is driven by sexual desire based off the human need for affection and intimacy. When sexual desire isn’t satiated, it creates physiological tension, which inevitably requires release...
read moreA Soul Destroying 9 to 5 Job
Readers of this blog know me as JT Styles; a 26 year-old dating blogger from New York City. I love women. I also love blogging about my adventures with women, and inspiring guys to reach greater levels of success in their own dating lives. However, I am not a full-time dating coach. This means that like most people, I work a 9 to 5 job to support myself. 9 to 5 on Monday through Friday, I wake up, suit up and take on my role as a Middle Manager. The job isn’t that stressful, I like the people I work with, the pay is okay…but office life feels like a ball and chain prison. You, the...
read moreThe Master Pickup Artist?! JT Styles EXPOSED
It was 2AM on Friday night as I leaned against the patio walls of my favorite rooftop lounge in NYC. I was scrolling through the rolodex of girls’ numbers on my phone, choosing which girl I’d go over to and spend the night with. I had met a couple of smokeshow hotties earlier in the night, but logistics were a no go to pull back home for romp times. No worries, I’d get each of them out on a date later. Tonight would have to be a ‘fuck buddy’ night, as I selected from the rolodex the girl I was most excited to see. As I set up a ‘fuck buddy’ night through text, I had someone...
read moreHesitation Killed The Warrior
Hesitation Killed The Warrior The girl that immediately caught your eye…but didn’t approach. The girl whose attention you got…but failed to lead. The girl whose lips were waiting to be kissed…but you didn’t kiss. The girl whose number you got…but didn’t ask her to come home with you. The girl you brought home…but were too afraid to escalate on because it might scare her off. Notice this has absolutely nothing to do with the girl…but everything to do with undermining your own reflexes as to man to take charge. See Girl. Approach Girl. This is a reflex. Between these two...
read moreIt’s Girlfriend Season
Men, It’s that time of year… It’s Girlfriend Season! The weather is getting colder, the holidays are quickly approaching, and single women everywhere are worried about still being single. During this season, women will become more aggressive in seeking out and dating men. This is especially evident by the huge spike in online dating activity, where women chose the computer over the nightclub. Whatever the situation though, women simply want a man in their life this time of year. However, they don’t want just any man. Women looking for a man that’s...
read moreAsk JT Styles: Breakups, Prude Girls, Halloween Game, Relationships After Sex, Setting Up Dates via Text Message
Ask JT Styles: Breakups, Prude Girls, Halloween Game, Relationships After Sex, Setting Up Dates via Text Message Questions, Questions, Who’s Got The Questions? (questions in bold, my answers below) Breakups Need advice on the best way to handle a breakup. She left because I was running around and she wanted more from me than I could give. Not hurting but can’t get the chick outta my head. What’s up! Some things… -Don’t check out her Facebook page, at all. You must stop yourself if you get the urge. -No texting or calling…it’s over, accept it. If she...
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