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The SPAM Approacher
SPAM. You know it when you see it. And your immediate response might be scrolling to the upper right hand corner of the screen and clicking X, sending it straight to the trash, never to be seen again. This wasn’t a difficult decision for you, not something you had to seriously think about… SPAM is sent to hundreds, thousands, possibly even millions of people. You know this and you know it doesn’t offer you any real value. Sure, SPAM could offer some “value”. A fascinating headline might prompt someone to click…to spend...
read moreDecisions Chisel Fate
September 27, 2008. It was supposed to be an ordinary day in my life. An ordinary day that consisted of waking up at 6AM to prepare for my 9 to 5 job, and then returning home to the comforts of television, internet pornography, Fantasy Football, frozen food dinners, and vigorous masturbation. My ordinary day would be complete when I slept in a bed that had never felt the warmth embrace of a woman. I used to believe being “good” with women was something a man was either born with or not. And I certainly was not born with it, considering...
read moreImportant Lessons About Seduction from the Twilight Series
Ok, I have a confession to make… I just finished the first book in the Twilight series by Stephanie Meyer. Why did I read this book, you ask? Because I kept hearing about it. The way girls talk about it, you can tell that the book taps into their deepest fantasies. They obsess over it. It’s become a phenomenon. Not just teenage girls either; I originally heard about the book from girls I work with. I think half the women in America have read it by now. Here are the key messages that I got out of the book. Important Lessons About...
read moreOvercoming Resistance in Seduction
The ideal situation is when there is little to no resistance in the seduction phase. This happens when a girl knows from the open that there is a very good possibility of sex if she continues interacting with a man, and she deems him sex-worthy. However, when a girl puts the brakes on seduction, there are several ways to overcome her hurdles of resistance and still lead to sex. Although I haven’t encountered Last-Minute-Resistance (LMR) in months, I’m reminded of techniques Ive used in the past. I’ve listed them...
read moreVince Vaughn in Swingers Guide to Getting Girls
In the 1996 film, Swingers, Vince Vaughn plays a young, handsome, confident and charismatic playboy who can approach any woman and instantly charm her…all at the amazement of his friends spectating in awe. Vince’s character symbolizes what women want…and what men want to become. So what are the tenets of Vince’s character that makes him so awesome around women? Vince Vaughn in Swingers Guide to Getting Girls Being the Life of the Party When he walks into a room, he is at complete ease. The display of emotion is that...
read moreThe 7 Deadly Mistakes of Approaching A Woman That Will Turn Her Off Instantly
Often Women Know Within the First 10 Seconds of Meeting a Man Whether They Are Going to Sleep with Him or Not…So Here Are The 7 Things Most Men Do To Immediately Disqualify Themselves—And How to Make Sure You Avoid All Of Them 7. Trying Too Hard Have you ever seen a guy who was so obviously trying to act cool or look important, but he just ended up being the guy all the women laughed about later and made fun of? Sure you have. Just like me, I’m sure you’ve had attractive female friends that always seem to hookup with the guy who...
read moreBe a Pimp, Not a Keyboard Jockey
There’s a vicious cycle that occurs in the SUISC (Secret Underground Internet Seduction Community). In the beginning, men are clueless. The flowers, the expensive dates, the unrequited “hopeless romantic” love and seeing the girl they cherish with a jerk they know isn’t right for her…or hating women for the fact they remain lonely. They’ve either developed pussy-esque or misogynistic attitudes for viewing relationships with women. Through chance, these same men discover the the SUISC. They might have read...
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