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Hesitation Killed The Warrior

Posted by JT Styles on Nov 2, 2011 in Activate the Asset, Blog, Getting It Done, Social Dynamics, Tips & Tactics | 3 comments

Hesitation Killed The Warrior The girl that immediately caught your eye…but didn’t approach. The girl whose attention you got…but failed to lead. The girl whose lips were waiting to be kissed…but you didn’t kiss. The girl whose number you got…but didn’t ask her to come home with you. The girl you brought home…but were too afraid to escalate on because it might scare her off. Notice this has absolutely nothing to do with the girl…but everything to do with undermining your own reflexes as to man to take charge. See Girl....

It’s Girlfriend Season

Posted by JT Styles on Oct 31, 2011 in Blog, Getting It Done, Relationships, Social Dynamics, Tips & Tactics | 4 comments

Men, It’s that time of year… It’s Girlfriend Season! The weather is getting colder, the holidays are quickly approaching, and single women everywhere are worried about still being single. During this season, women will become more aggressive in seeking out and dating men. This is especially evident by the huge spike in online dating activity, where women chose the computer over the nightclub. Whatever the situation though, women simply want a man in their life this time of year. However, they don’t want just any...

Ask JT Styles: Breakups, Prude Girls, Halloween Game, Relationships After Sex, Setting Up Dates via Text Message

Posted by JT Styles on Oct 26, 2011 in Activate the Asset, Blog, Getting It Done, Relationships, Social Dynamics, Tips & Tactics | 0 comments

Ask JT Styles: Breakups, Prude Girls, Halloween Game, Relationships After Sex, Setting Up Dates via Text Message Questions, Questions, Who’s Got The Questions? (questions in bold, my answers below) Breakups Need advice on the best way to handle a breakup. She left because I was running around and she wanted more from me than I could give. Not hurting but can’t get the chick outta my head. What’s up! Some things… -Don’t check out her Facebook page, at all. You must stop yourself if you get the urge. -No texting or...

Newbie Love in the Pickup/Dating Advice Community

Posted by JT Styles on Oct 19, 2011 in Activate the Asset, Blog, Getting It Done, Social Dynamics | 3 comments

Last night I attended a “Newbie Sarge”, an event held by The NYC Sarge Team where guys new to the pickup/dating advice community show-up alongside more seasoned veterans of the community to go out together and meet the women of New York City. The “Newbie Sarge” outings hosted by LovePirate have been going on for years and it’s produced some of the most respected and notorious talent in the community. It’s actually a beautiful thing and it’s how I got started exactly three years ago. What’s...

Chase Amante on Moving Fast with Girls: Why It Makes All the Difference

Posted by JT Styles on Oct 11, 2011 in Blog, Getting It Done, Guest Posts, Social Dynamics, Tips & Tactics | 0 comments

I was honored by my pal JT’s request to write up a quick blog post here and share with you an excerpt from my eBook How to Make Girls Chase: Every Tactic and Technique You Need to Get the Girl(s) of Your Dreams. JT’s a fantastic guy, and our styles in the social arts are pretty closely aligned — both of us keep things direct and to-the-point, and neither of us likes wasting time or effort on wishing or hoping for things to happen. The excerpt I selected for this post was on taking charge and making things happen with women...

The Disappointing Tale of A “John”

Posted by JT Styles on Oct 6, 2011 in Blog, Lifestyle Design, Social Dynamics | 13 comments

I heard about a guy that was so frustrated with his sex life (rather lack of one) that he made the decision to hire a prostitute. I don’t judge what this person did. He needed to fulfill his sexual desires and get his dick wet, so he paid a hooker. I’m sure he entertained the thought of paid sex several times before, perhaps browsing through craigslist and escort pages. As he failed to get results with women (get laid) those thoughts must have lingered and intensified over time. He believed he did everything he possibly could to...

Never Chase Women: Creepy, Unrequited Love & Why I Hate Bruno Mars

Posted by JT Styles on Sep 30, 2011 in Blog, Relationships, Social Dynamics | 53 comments

Before I explain why I hate Bruno Mars, let me admit that Bruno Mars is an extremely talented singer; there are no doubts about this. However, as talented as he is, his music make me absolutely sick. Not as someone who has discriminating musical taste, but as a man. I’ve never felt so disgusted listening to a song before I heard “Grenade”. Then a few days later I was ever more disgusted to see a group of seemingly straight men drive around singing along to the lyrics. I understand Bruno Mars is a popular R&B singer with...