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Don’t Be Ugly! Eliminate & Avoid These Fashion Mistakes
Most men are already aware that socks with sandals, Crocs, jorts (jean shorts), super skinny jeans, popped collars, and excessive jewelry are fashion mistakes that should be eliminated and avoided at all costs. While most men are aware of the fashion mistakes endlessly ridiculed in popular culture, there are other common fashion mistakes that haven’t yet been called out as “mistakes”. Fashion is a mistake when it makes a person less attractive and more ugly; this means people appear shorter, heavier, poorer, unconfident, and...
read morePlentyOfFish “Hack” That Gets Girls Messaging You Like Whoa
What I’m about to reveal in this article is a game-changer to the online dating world. For guys that have had absolutely no success with online dating- this article will change that. For guys that have enjoyed some success with online dating- this article will not only change that for the better, but it will get you feeling like a hot piece of man candy The PlentyOfFish “hack” I’m going to share isn’t really a hack per say. It’s a shortcut strategy that requires almost no effort, yet produces jaw-dropping results because it gets...
read moreDate With My High School Crush
The sight of her would create a strange mixture of anxiety, excitement, arousal, and hopelessness in my teenage body. I felt the proverbial “butterflies” whenever she appeared, overwhelmed with emotions that physiologically led to an increased heart-rate, palm sweat, and nervous muscle spasms. I thought of her as my that one special girl that was quite possibly my “soul-mate”. I fantasized about spending the rest of my life with her; holding hands, kissing, cuddling, 2.5 kids and a white picket fence. Her name was...
read moreGet More Dates! Photo Quality and Online Dating
Many guys have messaged me about how to improve their online dating profiles to attract more responses, thereby getting more dates. While I have my methods, one thing that really improved my own online dating success was getting professionally done photos. Although I consider myself a not-so-bad-looking guy, I’m not exactly the most photogenic person. Almost all the photos taken of me by friends or family appeared unflattering; they either captured an awkward smile or some weird facial expression. It’s as if I was ugly by...
read moreMediocrity of Masturbation
If there’s one destructive habit that destroys the motivation for men to approach women, it’s masturbation. Don’t approach women, don’t get laid. It’s plain and simple. This should be all the motivation necessary. However, for some men, masturbation is an instant gratification whose indulgence kills the motivation to approach women. That motivation to approach is driven by sexual desire based off the human need for affection and intimacy. When sexual desire isn’t satiated, it creates physiological tension,...
read moreA Soul Destroying 9 to 5 Job
Readers of this blog know me as JT Styles; a 26 year-old dating blogger from New York City. I love women. I also love blogging about my adventures with women, and inspiring guys to reach greater levels of success in their own dating lives. However, I am not a full-time dating coach. This means that like most people, I work a 9 to 5 job to support myself. 9 to 5 on Monday through Friday, I wake up, suit up and take on my role as a Middle Manager. The job isn’t that stressful, I like the people I work with, the pay is okay…but office...
read moreThe Master Pickup Artist?! JT Styles EXPOSED
It was 2AM on Friday night as I leaned against the patio walls of my favorite rooftop lounge in NYC. I was scrolling through the rolodex of girls’ numbers on my phone, choosing which girl I’d go over to and spend the night with. I had met a couple of smokeshow hotties earlier in the night, but logistics were a no go to pull back home for romp times. No worries, I’d get each of them out on a date later. Tonight would have to be a ‘fuck buddy’ night, as I selected from the rolodex the girl I was most excited to see. As I set up a...
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