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7 Ways To Feel Instantly Confident
If you were to ask a bunch of random people on the street, the question, “How do I get women?” The number one answer you would get is “just be confident.” That advice is true; if you “just be confident” then you will be 1000% more successful with women. The only problem is how do you just be confident? Well, that is where I come in. Today I’m going to share with you 7 ways that will help you feel instant confidence. When you implement the things I share with you, you will develop the type of confidence that will make women stop...
read moreDating as an Asian-American
Guest Post by Ben J., ABCs of Attraction Coach and Trainer. The tall lean blonde stands in the corner of the noisy bar, sipping her cosmopolitan anxiously waiting for the tall and handsome white man, rugged with his stubble and fit as can be to approach her. While the woman waits in silence, I walk up to the lean blonde and tell her how gorgeous she is, and that I had to come over and ask for her name. She reciprocates the scintillating conversation to me. We speak of high class, interesting activities from our personal hobbies, career, and...
read moreBreaking-Up With Girls
I write a lot about getting girls, but I want to discuss the topic of breaking-up with them. Understand that breaking-up with girls may or may not go smoothly. Each girl will rationalize their relationship with you based on several things; some of these things you have no control over, and some may not involve you at all. For example, her history & relationships with past boyfriends, her social group, her upbringing, as well as her overall feelings about romantic relationships will all factor into how she’ll emotionally react after...
read moreHuman After All
We were cuddled in bed when she whispered into my ear, “You’re perfect”. I rolled my eyes, cringing, wishing she hadn’t just said that. One may assume that being called, “perfect” isn’t cringe-worthy. However, experience has taught me otherwise. The girl in bed knew nothing about me except my name, the car I drove to pick her up, and some minor details of my life. Everything else about me was left to her imagination. It’s her imagination that sparkled the emotions of her heart and the sensation between her legs. It’s her...
read moreMemories Of An Ex-Girlfriend
While organizing the inbox folder of my Gmail account yesterday, I stumbled upon an email that was marked unread and nearly a year old. The email contained an attached photo, so I clicked it to see what it was about. The attached photo from the email was of a dirty blonde hair girl smiling naughtily at the camera. She was semi-nude, with tribal tattoos featured on the right-side of her torso, over her creamy white skin. I had all but forgotten about this girl, but this girl was hard to forget… Her name was Elizabeth, but I affectionately...
read moreOkCupid Search For Hotter Girls
I recently came across a post on Reddit detailing how to manipulate the URL on OkCupid search results to unlock an awesome A-List (paid) member feature. The awesome feature is the ability to search for hotter girls by “Attractiveness”, which is based on the average user rating for a profile on a 1-5 star scale. Essentially, the OkCupid search for hotter girls means few (if any) unattractive girls will show up on your search results; and this can also be customized by Age, Distance, Last Online, etc. To access the A-List feature,...
read moreSex On The First Date? Yes, This Is For Me
WHOA! That one word describes exactly how I felt when I saw her from across the street. I was already five minutes late to our scheduled 9:00 PM date and I could see the anxiousness displayed by her wandering eyes, perhaps wondering whether she’d be stood up. Rewind to a couple of weeks ago- I approached a slim, hot blonde girl with blue eyes in Union Square Park. We chatted for a couple of minutes, mostly talking about the unseasonably warm NYC weather (it was 70 degrees in March). We left exchanging numbers and Facebook...
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