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The Nightmare Before Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day, February 14th comes and goes every year, and every year there’s men and women arguing the significance of the so-called holiday. Of course, Valentine’s Day will mean different things for different people. For singles, it’s a harsh reminder that they’re still single e.g. Singles Awareness Day. And for couples (specifically men), it’s a reminder to make their significant other feel special. I’ve lived through twenty-seven Valentine’s Days, and there is one Valentine’s Day that serves as a reminder of just how...
read moreRoutines & Attraction? Oh My!
My biggest problem with “routines” is that they are lies. And very often they are absurd lies like Brad P.’s “The Horse Girl Opener”- YOU: “Hey do you like horses?” GIRL: ”HUH? ummm yea i guess.” YOU: “Hmm, I thought so. OK check this out, when I was in the 6th grade, there was this girl who loved horses. She used to run around the playground for an hour straight at lunchtime. She’d be galloping and making horse noises. We used to call her the weird horse girl.” GIRL: “Yeah,...
read moreDate Planning for Guys Who Want RESULTS with Women
This is a guest post by Chase Amante, founder of pickup and date training company Girls Chase. One of the biggest obstacles most men run into that stops them dead in their tracks (just about) from achieving the kind of results they want with women (read: more phone numbers, more dates, more and better lovers, and more and better girlfriends) is a total lack of any kind of practical planning going into their outings to meet women, and a total lack of date planning going into their meet ups with women who already like them and want to see...
read morePlay the Game, Don’t Change the Rules
As we lie next to each other, sweaty, exhausted, and satisfied, she turns to me with the smile indicating of a job-well-done and says: “You know, I knew I wanted to sleep together within five minutes of meeting you.” Immediately my thoughts turned back to my initial approach, our playful banter, my smooth one-liners, heavy making-out, and the overall impeccable game I ran on her that night. My ego wanted me to think I was the only party involved. As if I whisked into the brightly lit venue, a tornado of style, cologne and smoothness, slid...
read moreWhy Women Cheat
Women will cheat because they’re not being given what they think they’re owed (and feel entitled to). The motivation to cheat is really about her and her wants. She wants to feel sexy and attractive; and she wants a sexy and attractive man to make her feel that way. She also wants her physical and emotional needs met; and to not still feel bored after. This post isn’t intended to scare men into believing all women are cheaters. It is intended to make men aware of how their actions may or may not be affecting the women they’re...
read moreAwesome Approaching
Every girl is different. Every situation is different. However, the way you go about approaching a girl for the first time will typically be one of three specific ways. It’s important to know which approach to use based on the atmosphere (i.e. nightclub, bar, coffee shop), as well as finding out which technique is best suited for your personality. Let’s take a look at these approach methods I speak of. When using a direct approach you make it clear to the girl that you’re talking to her because you found her attractive. Perhaps you walk...
read moreJeremy Lin: Slam Dunk On Your Culture For The Win
Guest Post by Ian Mackay of NextLevelGuy.com So who we looking at? Who’s this? Jeremy Lin Who does he play for: The Houston Rockets Position: Point Guard Sport: National Basketball Association (NBA) Jeremy Lin: Slam Dunk On Your Culture For The Win So why look at him? You can’t have helped but noticed the large volume of press columns that have been devoted to the recent signing made by the Houston Rockets of one Jeremy Lin. For those of you, who somehow have managed to avoid the hysteria that this signing has brought, let me...
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